CYNTHIA MERRILL PROJECTS
COTILLION HISTORY
Since 1981, Cynthia Merrill has been the owner, director and
teacher of the Fresno/Clovis Cotillion. The cotillion program started
for the benefit of her first son, Cyrus Merrill and continued for the
benefit of her second son, Than Merrill. They both attended the program
from 5th grade through high school and grew tremendously in their
social confidence, manners and their ability to ballroom dance. Both
boys were amazed at how popular they were in high school and college
because they could partner dance.
The word cotillion originally
meant (in France in the 1800's) a style of dance for a minimum of four
couples. Then cotillion progressed to mean a formal ball where upper
class young ladies were presented to society. Eventually it became
known as an exclusive party (by invitation only) where ballroom dance
lessons and manners were given to children in high society. Today the
word Cotillion refers to a monthly party where ballroom dance lessons
and manners are taught in a party environment. Membership is open to
any child who wishes to register for the program.
The Cynthia
Merrill Cotillion is designed to teach children social confidence and
respect for one another while learning to ballroom dance. Contemporary
dance steps are now included in the curriculum along with manners for
social occasions. Refreshments are served and mixer games are played.
Children have a wonderful time at cotillion, make friends from all over
the valley and look forward to the monthly themed parties.
I
recommend a minimum of four years to really benefit from the cotillion
experience. It takes repetition for dance steps to be permanently
remembered; to get enough experience socially so you are comfortable
with everyone you meet; to have enough lessons to learn all of the
traditional etiquette rules and to put into practice all you have
learned.
Junior and senior high school is a very important age
for children to continue in the cotillion program. The more mature
etiquette program prepares our youth for high school and college. More
advanced dance steps are learned. The young people become excellent
dancers. Keeping children in the program over a period of years does
need parental encouragement.
email: cynthia.merrill@sbcglobal.net
www.cynthiamerrill.com